So today we packed, cleaned the apartment we've been calling home, and enjoyed a last dinner at the home of the Stoschers, the dear friends who've become even dearer to us as we tasted a bit of their lives and ministry here in Erseke. And I feel it fitting that this last post be a tribute to the Stoschers, because they have played such a large part in making our stay comfortable, interesting and meaningful.
Mark and Ruthie Stoscher |
In Mark and Ruth's case, they host individuals and groups almost daily for meals. They allow teenagers to take over a room on the first floor of their home, even when it's loud and messy and inconvenient. They open their gated playground every day to allow the town's kids to play, even when they have to stop what they're doing to supervise. They loan out just about anything not attached to the floor (furniture, tools, car, appliances), and give away even more.
Once, I asked Ruthie for a bit of popcorn (you can't find popcorn in Erseke stores), and she was joking with me that she didn't have any popcorn to give me. Of course, we both knew Mark had just brought her a giant bag from Tirana, the capital city. But Abi Stoscher (15), who didn't know that, exclaimed, "Mom, for a minute I thought you were serious. But I know you would never say that because you would give your last bit of it away, even if that's all you have!" Wow, can you imagine your teenager saying that about you? It really convicted me to think about all the things I have that I wouldn't give away, because "it's my last bit." But that's how our friends the Stoschers live, holding loosely to the things of the world, and sharing generously with everyone around them.
Mark, Ruth, Abi, Beka, Jamie and Stephen, thank you for sharing your lives with us for six weeks. Thank you for showing us the beauty of Albania in its land and people. Thank you for demonstrating a life lived richly in all the bet senses of the word -- rich in faith, rich in character, rich in generosity, and very rich in love.